He is very mature for his age and we have so much fun together and it is so much easier being with him than anyone from my past. I just don't want to ruin his youth life. I wish you all the happiness in the world because God must think you deserve it! He's said that in no way does it bother him and that our shared values and connection mean more to him than my age ever will. It also helps that he is intelligent and has a calmer disposition against my more tumultuous moods The relationship didn't work out not due to the age factor but because of our differences in personality the irony that it was the one that attracted us in the beginning and sadly, lack of communication. We are so in tune with each other, love the same things, I have never experienced anything like this before and its amazing, he is amazing.
But his trail of thought are more matured. I really love being with the person i am with but we get so much grief from some people about the age difference. Older woman he wants to find in training, arranged in love with a 34-year old female. Every morning we text good morning, every night goodnight and he calls me beautiful. Did you ever deal with this with your guy.
After divorcing my high school sweetheart after 22yrs of being a devoted wife and mother I was completely lost. We are both very open minded with our age and cultural differences and we seem to find a way to embrace that. Never said a negative word to me. On the real, I hope she realize that. When I ended it we both were in tears. I say go for it and I am so happy for you! Its nice to know im not the only one whose dating younger men. We just work through things and learn from each other.
She's in love with me too, we hit it off every time we are together. I told him i am thru with menopause and cant get pregnant. My ex never liked to be seen in public with me as I was much taller my new man does not care though we are a private couple as much as we can be. I don't think we ever got double looks or raised eyebrows. But I'm gon do like you said, I'm gon take it slow. But anyway ms imsospecial36; I like your attitude. I am 46 and have been writing a 33 year old now for almost 9 months.
Im 30 years old and my 19 year old mate was inlove with me for foir months and we dating long distance and its our love thats keeping us hoojng for the future. I think women in the range you mentioned would feel the same. But I could see it in her eyes she wants more than just to be friends. More and more we see much older men and women marrying younger, and its great! He is amazing and we have so much fun together. However, I just worry that I am getting old, and I need to settle down, start having babies and such and he is in his prime… Just makes you think about things, I would give anything to be 5 years younger.
I know she iz lie to me but i am looking to find something or a situation she won't be able to ie to me or some other stuff. Just give her some time and sometimes space. But I think you should just take it slow. Everyone says I look much younger than my age which is good and I am not attracted to many older guys anyway. Its only into the second month but I feel its much more than the honey moon period I keep hearing about. I have known him all his life. My beautiful man has so much maturity and understanding about him.
Months later, I am still not okay with him being so much younger. I mean I think I was genuinely touched and that it wasn't at all out of despair or loneliness. My only issue is his wanting me to meet his parents obviously but they don't know how old i am and if they did they would flip it so he doesn't want them to find out until after I meet them. And yes, I do think back when I was in my 30's, would I be into a serious relationship? I was told to support him because although he doesn't say it. When I was 27 I dated an 18 year old. I have had 7 kids, never a problem getting pregnant, even at 47.
They have nothing to do with this. All our friends and my family are so happy for us which is great and never bring up the age gap. Your view is its sickening so you think to made snide not so covert cutting remarks about older women staying in their lane. As far as I can tell we have lots in common. I have major anxiety issues because of my ex and my mum but my boyfreind has eased me through each one with the patience and empathy of a much older man beyond his years. So, that early relationship was 14 years apart, he is at 22 more like 35 which is 13 years apart and me being more like 35 at 49 is also 14 years apart so all things being equal, Im gonna go for it. Speaking only for myself, when I was 14 I found women aged between the mid 30s — mid 40s to be the most interesting.
Love is a beautiful thing no matter what the age difference is. He makes me feel good, he treats me well, he is ambitious and mature and the sex is amazing! I really care alot for this guy. Daisy Well I already knew his parents because my dad and his dad were friends. I am african ethnicity and he is an Indian…. Anonymous I'm 31 with a 25 yr old boyfriend I swear he runs circles around 40 yr olds I've dated and makes my 33 yr old ex husband look like I married a toddler! As Evan mentioned, men in their 20s and women in their 40s are both at their sexual peak. The guy I dated before him had never been married and I just felt like he had no idea where I was coming from sometimes! Looking to respond to: 23 year old female. I wish I could talk to you about this between me and you; I don't want you to think I'm tryna holla atcha or anything, it's just that you have the right things to say and it wouldn't be bad just talkin amongs ourselves whenever you have time.
I can honestly say that he is more mature than most of the 30-40 something men that hit on me on a weekly basis. The only problem though is that despite the fact that things are going extremely well between us, I have the deep conviction that it is bound to end. I had children and grand child, which we lived together for a short time. I met him a little over 4 years ago…and we have been through a very emotional relationship. I must admit I have been battling my own demons in my head over this very subject. These people are sharing real life experiences and your throwing around info out of a book, Internet or wherever else you get them.