Determine what your goals are and share them with your partner. I like him a lot and I do think he feels the same. It's either you take me whole or you will not have me at all. Give your partner the opportunity to sway your opinion. I am sorry your relationship ended, that is never fun. To be able to think clearly, to be lively, I have to change my environment up to get my brain working again.
He is a touchy person while, i dont like people invading my personal space. It isn't always easy dating someone with complete opposite dominate and inferior functions, but it might be easier for sensing and intuitive types to get along than having an opposite feeling-thinking dynamic. Also, I am not so fixated on material things whereas the guy I dated briefly was apt to getting into debt over nice furniture. Let me know what you think in the comments! Introverts tend to linger in their thoughts and introspection. I agree with most everything in this article! Relationship Strengths According to PersonalityDesk, a large volume of research shows that compatibility on as few as two dimensions can correspond to long-term happiness. Don't take my kindness for a weakness because I will explode.
You have an unexpected evening planned for you two? These individuals may end up in clerical or administrative environment or one more appealing to their supportive nature, such as teaching, child care, or social services. Someone who respectfully protects our sensitive nature. If they do not receive enough positive input regarding their role and efforts in the relationship then they will begin to feel as though they have failed. Some things will take a long time to solve or may never be solved because we are both more interested in keeping the peace than feeling that tension around each other to keep bringing it up. Loosen the reigns a little bit, Witt recommends. I gave him the cold shoulder for a long time after that, but one day I realized he stopped pursuing me and stopped fighting to have me. It can be difficult to let someone else in, even if they want to get close to them.
When making decisions, the person relies largely on the feelings and concerns of the people involved rather than thinking through the situation on a purely logical basis. This is a hard pill to swallow for idealists. So when it comes to the man I want to spend my life, I have to make sure he is stable and can be committed to me. And being introverted means we need plenty of time alone. I don't think he was crazy about the results but it is so him! Having dominant sensing function they are very well grounded into the material world unlike us. They both will take care of each other, and enjoy trying to make the world a better place. While there is a lot of chemistry, they need to be very honest with each other about what they truly want in a relationship, so that nobody gets hurt.
Where my Ni strives for more knowledge, and change - their Si wants things to stay the same. I agree with Kk, I always think if I should buy, if I have money enough to pay. I plan ahead and I save so that I can buy good quality things that I like. They will both take home life seriously, and enjoy creating traditions and commemorating special occasions. Even having at least one or two letter traits in common helps. This leads them to wonder why they even bothered at all and makes them more hesitant to reveal other things about themselves in the future.
They do what they do best and can be themselves and be loved for who they are. Like I clean the kitchen because my boyfriend didn't feel well, but then want him to tell me I did a good job or something. I am discontent in every single destination you stick me in. What made the relationship great? And , which they have poor access to and which often shows up under stress. Intuitives and sensors tend to be. In each other they will find a companion who provides an excellent sounding board for abstract thoughts and ideas.
Like All the Best Families, We Have Our Disagreements. I always get angry at him because I hate it when people hide things from me. When they do, they may end up exploding, expressing their true needs in a forceful way, or withdrawing from the relationship. For two years he waited for me. Putting any two J-types together can seem a lot like opposing the positive poles of two magnets. In that way we are pretty good at reading each other and we help each other sort our own thoughts out. You might feel as if you are speaking different languages as your interpretation and recall of each situation are often wildly different.
In other words, trust your gut. Good luck in everything that you pursue! It does depend on the individual but it is also just as you described. They have a different focus and value system. They want to believe in their partner so much, often at the risk of sacrificing their own happiness and comfort. They relish the chance to share their wisdom, theories, and insights. It is like a child who desperately wants to get behind the wheel of a car because driving looks like so much fun.
If you feel in your gut that things are not right, then don't hesitate to break up. In high school girls talking about the color of their nails and dye the hair I still find this kind of conversation so stupid, sorry. We dated for three years where I learned that love was a choice and not an emotion. They can therefore feel stuck. In this area you will likely find a great deal of satisfaction.