There will be challenges along the way, but there are with any relationship. I wish we didn't have to have these kinds of laws because it makes having a simple relationship difficult. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators. I'm in Canada, age of consent is 16, so all is well legally My morals were conflicted, but she doesn't look 16, and she doesn't act like a 16 year old. She was 12 years younger than me. And no, she cannot press any charges against you for seeing her son while you are at school or the library. However, this is highly dependent on the two people.
This is where the situation gets interesting. They are led by a ego-maniac, Xavier von Erck, who harasses anyone, including non-sex offenders, who attempts to call his group out on their stalking practices. Thanks for reading and hopefully providing some feedback. Also, they are loving parents, but neither really have time for my sisters and me. This site should not be used as a substitute for competent legal advice from a licensed professional attorney that practices in the subject practice discipline and with whom you have an attorney client relationship along with all the privileges that relationship provides. There is a public policy reason for that. We love and respect our women.
I can't say reading these responses and having 12 hours to mull things over is enough to make a decision, so I can't really promise that I'll be updating this thread with a final decision. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public. I've genuinely never had as much in common with someone as I do her and I enjoy talking to her over text messages and facebook. You know you are not ready to take this relationship to a deeper level and fyi, that is an incredibly mature insight that you have , and I am getting from your post that you have tried to make that clear to him. Met a girl through some friends, spent some time together, hit it off, and I find out she's 16, meanwhile I'm 19. I understand the whole more mature for his age, because I was like that.
We shared so much in common, and she both looked older, and was far more mature than most people I can remember being when I was that age I actually thought she was around her early 20's when I met her that when we went out for dinner, or on a date, no one gave us weird looks. First off, we're a little over 3 years apart. She doesn't want us dating and basically told him that we he and I were not dating. It would take a very particular pair to make it work as a proper relationship. It's about what you like and want despite him being on his own etc. This is were I say if you want a man you might want to look elsewhere.
Once a minor has reached the age of consent in their state of residence, they can legally consent to sexual relations with a partner. I know that most of my problems have been addressed but perhaps I am looking for something a little more. I've received mixed opinions from those around me. Thank you, you have no idea how much of a help both of you have been. The age of consent in Texas is 17. I guess I just needed someone elses opinion on the matter.
The question is asked anonymously, so this will cover the United States. My great grandfather married my greatgrandmother who was at least 15 years younger. We have been dating a few months now. I've already decided that if we kept our meetings just to school and the pubilc library then it would be fine, but still going against his mother's wishes. We get along well and are able to have real conversations, even though sometimes our views clash. So please, I'm asking anyone who can help me with this to help me. You are doing exactly what you need to do.
Some have said to continue dating him, as we have feelings for each other, and that age is just a number. The hardest part about dating someone that is in a different point in their life You in College, her still in high school is that her parents are going to see you as a total scum bag, that probably only wants in her pants. As a side note, she has a brother who's, like, 22 and probably pretty protective of her. We have been married for 23 years and havee 4 fine children. I think you should just do what you want, if you said you were like 23 and he was 16 then I would have thought differently. I just need help solving this problem.
Consult with an attorney before choosing any course of conduct. In Oregon, this clause allows minors who are within three years of their partner's age to consent in a sexual relationship. I want to try and respect his mother's wishes as best as I can, but at the same time I don't want to lose my relationship with him either. There was more to this, and it is being handled. That's pretty clearly in not-weird territory. This was created for small brackets of kids being charged.
I have talked to him about not wanting to take our relationship to a deeper level, especially after our issues with his mother. Do I come from a long line of sex offenders? An affirmative defense does not bar arrest and prosecution. Remember that he is only 16 and probably has a lot of growing up to do yet alone is still in the dating around stage. This begs the question- What is a child? The age of consent for sex is 17. I admit that I do feel a certain something around him, but I think perhaps it's puppy love. I don't think I'm willing to date her at this exact point in time. She sent me a text message that they are having unprotected sex on purpose, and not she claims she is pregnant.
Unfortunately, as a freshman in college who is turning 20 in four months, I feel extremely weird in this position, and the friends I've spoken to about it don't support me. Just because some people might not think its right, doesn't mean you need to listen to them and make them happy. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. This blog is made available for educational purposes only. As you mature into womanhood you will realize how important it is to be selective with who you choose to date.